Kinky sex is good for couples!

New Scientist magazine has reported how indulging in a little kinky fun can bring you and your partner closer together but first of all, you need to set up a sexy scenario...

Do you want to have power or relinquish it in the bedroom? Talk to your partner and decide which role you want to try.

Squirming submissives are released from all responsibility and the dominant will stop at nothing to possess you – it may even involve being obedient or humiliated! You may have to give an erotic massage, strip, run a bath for your 'master' and dry them off afterwards, be ordered to be a sex slave, made to perform oral sex on demand, rub their feet or clean the house naked!

As a bossy-boots dominant, you call the shots. It's up to you to set the scene, keep things going – calm the down or hype them up. You get to be selfish, cruel and superior without getting into trouble! It's usually the most confident person who assumes this role, but if you're not, give it a try - it can make you more confident in real life.

Work out what you would like to do in your sinful scenario by planning it with your partner first. Think suspense: doing things the submissive isn't expecting. Punctuate a stern telling off or spank with kind, cuddly stuff. Change locations when the least expect it. Break up sexual play with psychological games: give them an intense oral experience, then order them to do the dishes.

Think stern governess who spanks a naughty schoolboy; the King with a subject who needs punishing; the slave held captive by a cruel captor.

Written by Tracey Cox

Excert from Tickle His Pickle


Tickle His Pickle Table of Contents

1. Let's Talk About You
2. Meet the Penis & The Land Down Under
3. He's Commming!
4. Sights! Sounds! Seductions!
5. Hair Today—Gone Tomorrow
6. Slippery Stuff
7. Giving Great Hand
8. Giving Great Head
9. His Back Door (& More!)
10. Ready...Willing...Unable

Excerpts from Chapter 7 - "Giving Great Hand"

Most guys will tell you that receiving a handjob is one of life's greatest pleasures. But getting one that's truly erotic and exotic is a first-class upgrade to Cloud 9.

Your guy is surely an old hand at satisfying himself. But he'll be the first to admit that nothing compares to the thrill of your soft, warm, lubricated digits on his penis. It's the best skin-on-skin pleasure you can give him without thinking about birth control and safer sex. And he'll jump for joy at the chance to skip those sensation-dulling condoms.

Just think of your hands as creative sex toys with lots of moving pleasure parts. And because your fingertips are flush with sensitive nerve endings, you can actually feel his excitement, too. For starters, be sure your fingernails are trimmed smooth and hangnail-free, and your hands are moisturized and naked of all rings and jewelry that can snag and scratch. And if your hands are cold, warm them under running hot water or by tucking them between your thighs.

Imagine. By the time you finish this chapter, you'll know more about pleasuring his penis than he's learned in his entire life!












oh-Oh-OH-KAY!

To form the world's most natural grip, make the "OK" sign by touching your index (or middle) finger to your thumb, then slip it around his shaft. Now you can travel the entire length, adjusting the pressure to his liking.


Thank U!

Cradle his penis in the "U" between your thumb and your fingers, with your thumb touching the underside of his shaft. Keeping your wrist loose and your grip firm, begin stroking at a diagonal angle.


Sausage Wrap

Just enclose his shaft in your five hot little fingers with your thumb at the top and stroke.


Upside-Down Sausage Wrap

Reposition your wrist so your thumb is facing the bottom of his shaft.


Two-fister

Try any of the basic grips above, but use two hands. Don't lose your balance!














"Vibe Him"

Place a cylindrical vibrator over his balls, or whichever part of his manhood is not in your mouth! Then alternate your tongue and a vibe on his penis.


"Just Say O"

Keep your head still as he does all the thrusting motion into your mouth. You may want to grip your hand around the base or use a penis sleeve to act as a buffer, so he doesn't go too deep.